To Admit or Not

When you are a girl dreaming of the white dress, it is easy to see yourself with that guy, happily ever after the heels are off and the white dress is hung back in the closet. When, however, it finally happens to you, all of a sudden you get a chain of fears starting from whether you'll look as good as you had dreamt in that white dress to whether this is all too soon although you have been planning for a year and dreaming for another 20. If, after years pass, you find yourself looking at him with your soul, not even noticing his new braces at 40, or his hair that's needed a cut for months now, then, maybe, finally, it is time to relax, and accept that by some sheer luck, you've made the right choice.